Being happy is so much easier when you aren't worried about everyone else. Like I always say you have to make yourself happy before you can make anyone else happy too.
Recently I've been feeling pretty great about myself because I realized that I can't try to fit in just for people to like me. Because those friend ships wont last; instead, I decided to be myself and to be nice to people. A lot of people have this goal but people tend to focus on people that are like them and not all people all together. For example if you are an outcast you will try to befriend other outcasts, which is fine but, those people often forget to treat the non-outcast people the same and then they stick up their noses to these people; which just causes a cycle of why there are outcasts to begin with.
That's where I came up with my strategy; Help those who need it and those who don't. Be there for the people who need it most but don't push the people who are ok away just because they seem not to need your help. This way I don't feel like a hypocrite by helping one person, or judging them and not the other.... idk if that makes sense oh well.
xxo Leeser
Stay golden.
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